I would go for the home builder job. I think you have to look at it on the long term. This company is bigger and therefore more stable. Prospects for higher income and promotions should be a major consideration.

Peace and blessings!

Consider taking the the job related to “Internet stuff if you feel it is stable, the housing market future is rather shaky in many areas of the country and this industry has many ups and downs and is tied to interest rates.

more laid back one if they pay about the same

If you are a puter geek then join the internet company. Advantage is that when the company grows, you will grow with it and advance in life.

The building job. You get to interact with people
Invest in your future happiness.
I love my computer and could sit here all day, but if I had to spend 8 hours doing someone else stuff, I would be bored out of my mind.
Laid back = Boring

I think you should go with the homebuilder job. Having a set schedule is nice because you can make plans knowing exactly when you work and when your done. Also you are working with people so you wouldn’t feel so disconnected from the world. Working with others is much more rewarding. Good luck with either job you choose.